Monday, August 30, 2010

Mrs. Pharisee

I want to tell you about the meeting with the ladies on Sunday but first I need to introduce you to a different character in order to set the stage properly. Wekot is one of our sharpest ladies, a young mother of two that flew through literacy classes and even helped teach the last class.  She’s actually from our third village, Tudaw which is the farthest away from us.  Her mother is still alive and often comes to Wabuku to stay for a month or two before heading back to Tudaw.  She usually wears her welcome out – with her daughter and the rest of the village.  She’s the worst when she’s been in Tudaw for awhile and then comes here.  She’s one of the worst Uriay Pharisees we know.  J  She’s always pointing the finger about how bad everyone else is and how good she is. She even told me yesterday morning that she’s a good woman (righteous) while others are not.  She’s this skinny little lady with a big mouth.  She’s always getting into arguments with the rest of the village – mouthing off to men so that people mock her and pretty much laugh at her openly.  In that sense, we’re thankful as it means that they don’t take her list of do’s and don’ts too seriously as to how they can be righteous.  She tends to think all the men are ogling her, wanting to marry her.  She’s always telling us ladies that.  It makes us want to laugh! I have a hard time keeping a straight face because it’s all she talks about it and it’s the farthest thing from any of these men’s thoughts!  We wonder if she’s getting a little senile actually based on the odd things she says and does at times.  More recently she even said she wanted to marry her son-in-law.  Ok, so picture this skinny mouthy woman who is always telling the Wabuku people how bad they are and how good she is, coming in time to hear this week’s teaching after having been in Tudaw for the last three months basically.  She was here the first week of teaching but then went back to Tudaw.  She’s in her best self-righteous state (she does mellow out and become fun to be around when she’s been here for awhile) as she comes to Sunday’s lesson.  She sits next to me and tells me how much she’s been wanting to hear this talk- on and on she goes.  Really what she’s doing is establishing her goodness with me (in her mind anyway) while I’m thinking that if she really wanted to hear it, she could have been here listening to it.  The choices was hers so all this talk means little to me while she thinks she’s buttering me up, so to speak.  So anyway, as Elias teaches, she manages to listen and be still for a good part of it, but she can’t help trying to take over as he asks comprehension questions through the lesson.  She tends to make statements – wrong ones but she makes them all the same as to how people get saved or who God is or whatever.  Elias was gracious and didn’t embarrass her but  he also made sure the truth was understood as he went along.  Then even as I asked review questions, she was quick to answer….just incorrectly.  But other ladies and the men answered with understanding and knowledge of the truths we’ve been teaching.  It was really neat to see!  The Tudaw folks look down on the Wabuku folks because they don’t do ‘church’ here.  There are church buildings in our other two villages and they meet regularly but it’s a gospel of works not grace that’s taught in these buildings.  You do this and don’t do that and God will save you.  Nothing about them being sinners or that Christ died on their behalf – it’s all about your works.  So to see our Wabuku folks answering questions with authority and real understanding while this Tudaw woman and other guys from the second village were a liitle off in their responses was really cool! 

 

As soon as the meeting was over, the ladies and I were waiting for the men to leave so we could meet.  My little Pharisee lady started going off on something.  She was talking about some guy upriver that supposedly came back to life and lots of talk about sorcerers and sorcery.  The men were answering her and the debate was going back and forth while the other ladies and I were trying to figure out if we should hit the tree gong, especially since one of the guys was sitting on it!  Finally, we were ready to start and I just asked the other ladies if I could raise someone from the dead by my power.  Could the sorcerers?  Could any other man raise someone from the dead?  They all responded without hesitation that none of us could, only God.  This did exactly what I wanted it to do, it made the Pharisee shut up.  I asked questions of the ladies about that morning’s lessons and previous ones and they answered quickly and correctly while this other lady, Sakwe, kept responding incorrectly.  She kept trying to take the floor and direct the conversation to things about her, her husband’s death or what someone else taught.  So I finally looked right at her and asked her if she came to listen to God’s Word or to preach.  She’s about the only lady I would ever be that direct with but you have to be with her.  She said she came to listen and so she turned to look directly at me (she was sitting next to me), pressed her mouth together tightly and made as if to listen, grudgingly perhaps but she was quiet anyway.  I want her to understand the truth but she’s not really one to listen, she knows it all.  And I sure didn’t want her to distract the other ladies or keep them from learning what they wanted to learn.  As we continued to talk about the most recent stories, it was so amazing to watch the other ladies tell her the stories and the truths they’re learning!  If Sakwe had a question, the other ladies would answer before I could, so I usually just waited and let them answer first.  They were right on and I didn’t need to ‘catch’ her up – they were doing it!  Wow!  These ladies are solid in their understanding so far!  That was the best part of the morning for me!  I thought you’d enjoy it too!  It made me think of that verse in 3 John 4, I have no greater joy than to see my children walking in truth.  We’re almost there!  We’ll soon be able to rejoice with God to see His Uriay children walking in truth.  I was privileged to get a glimpse already! 

 

Keep praying for these ladies – Imi, Dakruma, Nawiyem, Kayne, Ame, Tabe, Makay, and Maria.  There are others but these are the ladies that are there most every week for the ladies’ meetings.  Others are hit and miss but still tracking too. 

Friday, August 13, 2010

Update on Individuals

Here’s an update on the Uriay folks and how you can better pray for them!

 

Wobre  - in Vanimo, heard the first 2-3 weeks of teaching perhaps and hasn’t been back since

Komnawe – attending daily, seems to be following but pretty quiet

Timoti (teen) – came at first but not really attending

Tyekob (teen) – has only heard a few lessons

Akusta (teen) – attends often but her attendance has dropped off recently

Tyoel (11) – definitely old enough to understand, periodically attends

Akaria (3) – there every day to scream her head off during the teaching time J

 

Tyob – really tracking well!

Fena – attending and very intent as she listens to the lessons, really quiet so it’s hard to get her to say what she’s thinking about all this

Nuafe (8 or 9) – attends daily but not sure what she’s thinking

Karoba (11)* - there occasionally

Makret (9)* - attending but has become rather sporadic in her attendance

 

Aki – Tyob’s mom – there daily and seems to be tracking but can’t get her to say openly what she thinks

 

Boni and Komayyo – neither one are attending, expecting cargo and things to just show up, we’re holding out on him by not showing him how to get all the cargo from his dead ancestors

Inok (11 or 12) – not attending

Dakruma (8) – sporadically attends with her cousins

Dona (6) – sporadically attends with her cousins

 

Diksen – has attended some and seemed really interested but has fallen off lately, in the same camp as his brother, Boni – waiting on the cargo

Edade – sporadic attendance

Sebeti (teen) – rarely there

Tyesi (10) – has heard very few lessons

Lubina (7) – occasionally attends with her cousins, but not enough to really catch it all

 

Fol  - not coming, one of the other guys accused him of stealing tobacco so he doesn’t attend

Lusi – attends occasionally but has missed as many lessons as she’s heard

 

Nawiyem (widow) – sharp as anything! She’s missed a few lessons but she’s one of the ladies interacting in the lessons and ladies’ meetings!  She’s so close!

 

Tyimi and Kristina – were there for the first week of teaching but have been in Kristina’s village, Busan for the rest of the lessons

 

Meyyo (widow) – there almost every day, she’s another quiet one that won’t really answer my questions as to what she’s thinking about the lessons, time will tell

Dina (teen) – sporadic attendance but has heard quite a bit

Terens (teen) – sporadic attendance but has heard a fair bit

Wilfet (9 but mentally slow) – there most days

Wekot (7) – there most days with her mom

 

Ame (widow) – she has been tracking so well – so keen to hear it – answering questions in the ladies’ meetings and asking them. Her daughter’s husband died in a nearby village so she’s missed the last two weeks of teaching and may miss the rest.  Pray for a miracle here that she can come back and hear the rest of the story!

Kata (12) – there consistently when her mom was here in the village but she’s in the other village as well

Dominik (8) – in school in this other village, hasn’t heard any of the lessons

Tyeko (6) – was here but now in the other village

 

Paetrik – there most days but tends to skip out for fishing or gathering house posts, tracking well though

Tayna – same as her husband but she seems to be tracking well

Kilfet (6) – there but still too young

 

Fabel – has probably only missed one day in the whole three months! He’s keen to hear it and seems to be tracking wel

Imi- hasn’t missed a day, tracking REALLY well and hungry to know the truth!  She actively participates in the lessons and ladies’ meetings – so close to understanding it all!

Tyefri (teen) – rarely in attendance

Erot (teen) – there most days, she’s sharp but not sure where she’s at for sure

Noma (7) – there with her mom almost every day

 

Albert – has helped with translation and checking Bible lessons but he’s very hit and miss in his attendance

Wabsa- there more consistently than her husband but a hard one to get talking about what she’s thinking!

 

Tyems – there daily, has missed some but he’s another one that’s keen to hear this and seems to be tracking really well!

Tabe – there daily and attends the ladies’ meetings too, very quiet but have had some neat talks with her

Stenli (19) – lives on his own – distracted by his sister’s baby out of wedlock and how that kept him from getting married – has hardly attended and isn’t getting the point as a result

Erik (teen) – sporadic attendance

Marina (11) – sporadic attendance

Mayyori (9) – sporadic attendance

Rems (7) – there most days

Aron (5) – there with his mom most days

Makay (18) – just had a baby but not by the guy she was promised to in marriage, so still single and living with her parents with the baby – there every day and often comes to the ladies’ meetings – seems to be tracking well

 

Makret (Tabe’s mom) – widow – there every day, quiet so we’ll see what happens in the days ahead

 

Maria – widow  - very faithful in her attendance, tracking really well and eager to hear it all

Kiware (teen) – sporadic attendance but has heard quite a bit so far

Yabmu (8) – there most of the time

 

Aendru (19) – there most days, has missed a few for fishing, etc.  He’s tracking well but he’s pretty proud and cocky right now too.  Pray that the Lord can break through that pride.

Aywasi (teen) –not attending at all

 

Buti and Tariri  - they’re in her home village – he’s not heard any of the teaching and she’s only heard about 10 lessons at most

his kids – Abram (teen) – sporadic attendance

Dara (11/12) – there just about every day

Eretia (7) – there most days

Her kids – Samaria (19) – in the other village with her mom and step-dad

Yurista/Yubet (teen) – in the other village

Dobeta (10/11) – in the other village

Ensel (7) – here and attends sporadically

 

Ambi – sporadic attendance, has been in another village the last week

Eren – very eager to hear, there every day and seems to be tracking really well but has missed the last week

 

Saylas- attends occasionally but seems to be in the same camp as his father-in-law, looking for stuff

Wenti – there more often than her husband, has missed quite a few lessons but still coming more often recently

 

Markus – attended rather faithfully at first but hasn’t come for the last three weeks or so

Mekrin – there daily and at the ladies’ meetings – she told she was hearing new things and she seems eager to hear but she’s also very quiet!

 

Aendrien – has hardly missed a day!  He’s so keen and tracking really well.  He’s probably surprised us the most because his brother falls into the disappointed with the missionaries’ camp and yet he’s there every day.

Kayne- don’t think she’s missed a day yet!  She’s so keen and tracking really well – another one of those ladies that’s interacting and pondering how this affects her and her kids!

Dasti (12) – there most days

Naensi (8) – there most days

Silia (6) – there most days

 

Noel – missed the first two weeks but has been pretty faithful since.  He seems to be tracking really well and keen to hear it.

Wekot – there every day although she missed the first couple weeks as well.  She is answering lots of questions in the lessons and really putting things together well!

Lisa (4) – there but hard to tell what she’s really grasping

 

Stiben – there every day, he seems to be tracking but he would probably be one that would associate daily attendance with righteousness.  Pray he grasps the real way to be righteous before God!

Dakruma – another of those sharp ladies that’s answering questions in the lessons and actively participating in the ladies’ meetings.  She’s another one that’s really close to putting it all together!

 

Manay and Aketa -  haven’t been in the village for any of the lessons

 

Manwel (has two wives) – not attending the teaching, he’s in Boni’s camp, disappointed with us missionaries because we aren’t pouring cargo out upon them day and night.

Mabe (first wife) – attends sporadically

Aysik (10) – attends occasionally and is almost more disruptive than attentive

Saylas (7) – rarely if ever attending

 

Bio (second wife and Mabe’s sister) – attends occasionally, more so than her husband or sister but has missed a lot too

Tyud (11) – not attending

Saenta (7) – there when her mom or cousins are occasionally

 

 

I think that’s everyone.  Tyon Abe came from Busan last week and it seems like there will be open doors to Busan and Tudaw to share this message there too!  Be praying for that – it won’t happen right away but we want them to hear it all too!  A large number of the teens mentioned above are thinking about marriage so they seem to be super distracted with that and not focusing on the teaching.  They’re waiting on Wobre’s return from Vanimo to arrange these marriages so they’re spending more time flirting and doing whatever the others are doing all together than attending the teaching.